Self Help And Education Blog

Is she interested?

If you want to meet women I suggest you first make sure you have mastered your body language and learned the ability to interpret a woman's body language. Before any conversation takes place, a woman has already formed an opinion of you. Body language is a subtle, subconscious language that tells people reams about you.

When it comes to your own body language, the first thing to work on is your posture. Good posture immediately conveys confidence and self esteem.

Pay attention to your body and what it is doing. Ask a friend to tell you when you are doing a nervous habit so you can learn to stop it. Make sure you make eye contact with everyone you speak to.

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Contrast is the same as showing differences or unlikeness. In our day to day experiences, contrast is something that we say we do not want.

When you live contrast, you are living something unwanted. But can contrast be good?

Without it, we wouldn’t get very far! We would all like the same things; everyone would like the same sports, the same foods, everyone would sing the same songs and there would be no platform for anyone to give birth to a new desire.

That type of a world doesn’t sound very exciting does it?

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Black and White. Good and Bad. Positive and Negative. No in-betweens. Choose one or choose nothing at all. Same way goes for our subconscious. The messages we tell ourselves assert the way we tend to live our life.

Having a goal or a dream is normal for people. Wanting to be successful in a certain career is determined through the way we act and think.

Our subconscious picks up the random thoughts that linger in the back of our minds, a simple warning, even a meager word. Your thoughts should be focused on what you want to achieve in life. Daily recognition of what you want to attain will eventually lead to reaching your goal. Always be conscious of your thoughts. A plain negative idea can turn into a problem, which can lead into the demise of your dreams.

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Money is a force. It is a concentrated symbol of energy and power in life. Like all forces in the universe, money obeys certain universal laws or principles. By understanding those laws and acting appropriately, we gain a great power over money, enabling wealth and prosperity to come our way.
When followed, these methods have a tendency to instantly attract money from seemingly out of nowhere, defying our normal notions of cause and effect, and what is logical and possible. Such sudden and abundant results are indications of the wondrous phenomenon of “life response” at work.

1. Attention: Money responds to great attention. Keeping precise and upto date accounts are a powerful mechanism for suddenly attracting more of it.

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Change occurs when energy shifts. To understand change, one needs to understand the dynamics of energy. Everything emanates energy—animate beings, physical objects, even thoughts and feelings—and these energy “fields” impact and alter all they touch.

If we are to have control over the changes in our lives, we must also understand the importance of thoughts, beliefs, ideas, and feelings as energy. Only when we understand and can apply the following basic laws of the universe will we be able to consciously affect the change process:

1. Energy follows intention.

2. Whatever you add energy to multiplies.

3. Thought followed by word and action equals form.

4. What you believe becomes.

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“Can I use The Law of Attraction to lose weight?” Absolutely!

Have you ever wondered why some people can just eat and eat and eat and NEVER get fat? Your friends or family may have told you … “it’s because of their metabolism and it’s different to yours”.

Not exactly an encouraging statement to say the least. Well what we’ve just proven is that food has no direct impact on the size of your waist! I’ve known people who have literally stuffed their faces at parties, eaten monstrous sized meals and have sat around watching TV all day long whilst they miraculously burn off the fat.

But why can’t I be like that? What’s so different?

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Your playbook (from my self-help series…ChalkTalk101) will help you choose the most
beneficial life path for you. It has all the
necessary information to succeed and
understand the system that you are playing in. If
you study it and understand how to run the plays
you will be a winner. Your playbook even helps
you be ready to change up your life goals, be
flexible use the audibles in your playbook to
counteract any of the opposition’s defenses.

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Believe it and you can achieve it!

You make the difference in all the aspects of
your life! What you can conceive and believe you
can achieve!

Brian Tracy, master motivator has these things
to say about attaining success:

• “We know that willpower is essential to
any success. Willpower is based on
confidence. It’s based on conviction. It’s
based on faith. It’s based on your belief in
your ability to triumph over all obstacles.
And you can develop willpower by
persistence, by working on your goals by
reading the biographies of successful
people, by listening to audio programs, by
reading books about people who’ve
achieved success”.

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Continuing our discussion on Lesson 5, we have covered three steps in the 4-Step process:

1. Knowing What You Want
2. Moving into a Meditative State of Mind
3. Creative Visualization

One thing that Proctor takes time to emphasize is that while your practice visualizing, you need to make your dream/goal big enough so that it can stretch out to affect other people positively. You have to be able to see it benefiting the great good. Start by seeing how it could benefit and inspire your own family, see it extend to neighbors and colleagues, see them carrying your dream to others in their circle. The more you can increase the size of your dream; you can increase the happiness and the other positive emotions that will come out of your success, thus, increasing your ability to attract it from the Universe.

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